In my younger days, I lived a life of pleasure and fun, without any goals or plans for the future. All this rooted from feeling unloved and unseen, even though I had all the love from my mom and grandparents. Having a single mom who had to work to support us, support her relatives had its ups and downs. She did the best she could with what she knew, and she is the most amazing woman, mother a little girl, woman could ask for. Through the turmoil's of life and my mom's second marriage, I got blessed with having siblings, the highlight of my life. I had so much fun with them growing up despite the age difference. Regardless of all the ups and downs, I carried a lot of burden and heaviness internally, not realizing how severe the trauma was. All this led to a lifestyle of nightlife, parties, nightclubs, you name it, I fell in love with it. It was like being a kid again and just disguising my pain and anger through social outings with friends and feeling like I was on top of the world. Regardless of what my family would say, I disregarded any lessons I learned at home. I found myself in relationships that were controlling, some were somewhat loving but nothing that was authentic and genuine, and a lot of self-sabotage. I realized after years of this repetitive loop that I was depressed, stuck, and I found no joy in late-night parties, meaningless relationships, and working at a job that didn't bring me contentment.

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One day, I realized that in order to find happiness and pursue my dreams, I needed to make changes for the better within myself. I knew that positive thinking and setting uplifting goals could manifest wonderful outcomes in life. But where would I begin? How would I start?

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That's when I decided to seek out a life mentor to help guide me on my transformational journey. I realized that I had so much potential and so much to offer, but I needed to start with my own transformation and healing. Having a mentor and an extraordinary life coach really shifted my perspective on life and my internal world, my very own existence. That I matter!

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Over the past 8 years, I invested myself fully into the work of shifting my life. I dedicated my time to the process of diving deep and doing the work necessary to truly be able to live my dream life. It was a challenging process, but I never gave up. I knew that I had to be willing to put in the effort and face my fears in order to create the life that I truly wanted, an extraordinary life.

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Today, I am a living testament to the power of transformation. I have my own successful business doing what I love, I feel grounded and at peace with myself, despite the ups and downs of life, and I truly feel my emotions. I have amazing friends and a wonderful family. Transformation is dedication and hard work; it's the knowingness that excellence is thriving, seeking internal validation and self-worth/love instead of external validation. And as long as I stand with respect and integrity with myself and others, then I've mastered my transformation. To have peace in my heart, peace with my words, and peace in my mind.

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This is how I transformed my life, but the journey of self-discovery continues, and transformation is eternal.

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We are all worthy of our dreams and desires.

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